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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by str8tupgirl

str8tupgirl — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:21:59 +0000

maybe i’m old fashion but i don’t kiss on the first date. get to know the person first before sharing some thing intimate as a kiss. develope a friendship first and getting to know the person first. if there is a mutual attraction, the kiss will come naturally and have more meaning.
holding hands and hugging are feelers to find out if the other is interested to go further. body language is also ways of seeing if someone is interested. leaning in toward the others is a sure sign that their interested. never go straight at a girl for a kiss, some girls will follow through with one at times but i personally turn and give them a cheek if i’m not ready for a kiss at that point of the getting to know/date but will follow through with a kiss on their cheek in return….a tip to know when a girl is ready to kiss is to lean in but only go half of the distance and wait, she’ll come in the other half if she’s interested.
when dating in the beginning stay away from the movies because you can’t talk in the movies and your not getting to know the person. save the movies for later dates. the more you talk to the girl the more you get to know what her interest are but let her talk and learn about you too. what you find to be the common interest for both, then use that towards future dates and both decide on what the next date is going to be i.e. you might pick going to the beach for one date but then let her decide on what she wants to do for the next date.
another tip, never start out any friendship or relationship based on lies cause eventually they will find out. don’t brag about yourself, if she ask you a question, answer honestly, don’t try to make yourself out to be something your not. not all women are gullible and most can spot a bullshitter a mile away. hence, the lets just be friends comment, not returning any phone calls, extremely busy, and so on.
as for your last question ‘ any clue what am i doing wrong?’ it could be a number of things, too clingy, coming on too strong and too fast, moving too slow or as simple as your just attracted to the wrong type of girl. that’s some thing your gonna have to figure out on your own. something you might want to try is, when the girl tells you that dreaded comment of ‘lets just be friends’, why not just ask her why? at some point your gonna come across an open and honest girl that can give you that answer of why.
the dating world is tough and sucks at times but remember there’s more fish in the sea. it always seems like it’s someone thats in a relationship that gives that same corny advice to a single person but i’m single too and believe it to be true. there’s someone out there for you. when it’s time for you to meet them, then you will. i have found out that when i’m looking too hard that’s when i never find but when i not looking, it finds me.
good luck!
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by Michael S

Michael S — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:19:59 +0000

Go with the flow – you may be turning off the woman by trying to push her into a relationship that she is not ready for. Don’t try to force things – sit back and let it happen.
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by Mr Christopher

Mr Christopher — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:17:59 +0000

Maybe they are lesbian?
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by Marci

Marci — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:15:59 +0000

Maybe your not meeting the right girls. It’s better that you find out it’s not going to work on the third date, than trying to make something out of nothing, and finding out it’s not going to work 5-10 years down the line. Be patient, the right girl will come along, and it’s always when you are not trying so hard. Give up on trying to find somebody, and see what happens. I don’t think you are doing anything wrong as long as you are being yourself. If you try to change who you are the person you get involved with is not going to get to know the real you, and will not fall in love with the real you. In the end it will not work, because the relationship was built on false pretenses. I hope this helps you. You will find the right one, just be patient.
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by brittme

brittme — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:13:59 +0000

Maybe you are coming on too strong. Don't set standards for the dates. Make sure that you are doing things that you and her want to do. From what you described above, I would have to say that what you are doing on the first date by kissing, could be a little too much. I know that is such a simple thing, but it means so much. Maybe you could hold off for a while. The second date, when you said that you go dancing on a beach, I have to say that is a bit much. I have been married for 13 years and known my husband for 15 and we have never gone dancing on a beach. One question I have for you is, in how many days are you doing all of this? Is it in a week, 2, month? Try taking it a bit slower and spend more time talking on the phone. If you can get lunch times from work at the same time, that might be good because both of you have to get back to work and there is a time limit for how long you can spend with each other. Just a suggestion from a women! Hope you find out what you are doing with the girls.
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by kimber g

kimber g — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:11:59 +0000

you are really rushing things, a kiss on the first date is pretty fast. girls will just think your using them. big hint for guys. most girls want to feel cherished and cared for. show alot more emotions at the beginning then physical.
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by scorpionwoman

scorpionwoman — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:09:59 +0000

maybe you should try being a little more forward….. make her feel like you really want her, touch her, or call her at an unexprected time just to say hi and tell her you been thinkin about her …. women love attention, and as bad as this makes us look….. we like knowing you want us sexualy and knowing we are in charge of when you get it. other than that i dont know what else to tell ya
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by Leila

Leila — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:07:59 +0000

Maybe your showing to much affection – you maybe moving to fast for the girls. Girls are normally attracted to someone who’s harder to get. When we know a guy likes us right away we take a step back because it’s scary to know that someone likes us too soon in that kind of way. Normally it’s friendship first then if it’s right we take the next step – kissing, sex, romance etc.
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by footybearuk

footybearuk — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:05:59 +0000

It could be a lot of things – maybe you just didn;t find the right lady yet.
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Comment on Take Your Family Kayaking For A Fun Family Outing by YingYang

YingYang — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:03:59 +0000

You arn’t doing anything wrong, you just haven’t met the right girl yet! I’d be very happy with the dates you’ve described! Look at it this way, you’ve got one more frog out of the way, so you are one step closer to the princess! You’ll find her, and she will be worth waiting for!! Good Luck!
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